Wartime blackout led to 70-year marriage for Deal couple
by Beth Robson
Tragedy and separation they endured when they first married has
made Sid and Lillian Gibbons appreciate the good times all the
That has been the secret to their 70-year marriage - after a
touching romance sparked during a wartime blackout.
The Deal couple met in 1941 when Sid was a soldier stationed in
Bushey, near Lillian's hometown of Northwood, Middlesex.
He had been visiting a friend in the hospital and Lillian was
going home from her job as a nanny.
Mr Gibbons said: "It was in the blackout. I lost my way and
asked her the way. I knew anyway, but you’ve got to have an
"We made another appointment and it escalated from there."
Their first date was at the pictures during a time where
off-duty soldiers had to take guns and ammunition in
case enemy troops parachuted in.
Mr Gibbons said: "If you went to the cinema you had your young
lady by one side and your rifle on the other.
"When the war was on, you never knew how long you were going to
be in one place. We decided that we would get married so we made
When Sid went off to war, Lillian was pregnant and she was
evacuated to Taunton in Somerset where she gave birth to their son
Lillian and Sid Gibbons
celebrate their 70th anniversary
Soon after he was born, she returned to Sid's family home in
But when she arrived she had nowhere to go because a flying bomb
had destroyed the house - killing Sid's father, mother, two
sisters and a nephew.
With salvaged furniture, Lillian moved to her late
sister-in-law’' flat and after being given 10 weeks compassionate
leave, Sid was posted to Burma.
Malcolm was about three months old and Sid did not return until
the end of the war in 1946.
Their daughter Marian was born the next year.
Lillian said: "I was lucky, some of them were away for four
years. Lots didn't come back. I was fortunate.
"We started off in difficult times then times got better," said
Sid. "If you experience that, you've learned something."
The couple, of St Richard's Road, celebrated their 70th
wedding anniversary just before Christmas.
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