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My son racked up £1k bill on Xbox

Dawn Matthews with her 11-year-old son Brendan Jordan

by Keyan Milanian

A mum-of-two is furious after her 11-year-old son racked up a £1,000 bill on his games console in just six months.

Dawn Matthews got the unpleasant surprise after one of her bank cards was turned down when she tried to pay a phone bill.

Miss Matthews, 37, from Strood, had entered her bank card details into the Xbox when her son, Brendan, first got it to allow him to play against friends online.

However, she was unaware Brendan had continued to use it - and buy extra games, weapons and costumes for his virtual characters - totting up a bill of £1,087 since July.

She said: "I tried to pay my mobile phone bill on February 1, the day after I was paid, and they kept declining my card so I rang the bank and they said it had all been spent on Xbox Live and reeled off 25 payments in the last two months."

The payments ranged from £4.50 up to £40 and had started in July, when Miss Matthews was dealing with the news her father had cancer. In one month, Brendan had managed to spend £350.

She added: "People will say 'how did you not notice?', but my laptop, which I use for online banking, has been broken since July and I was mostly dealing with all the letters about direct debits bouncing to check my statements.

"I had just put it all down to the recession and rising costs of petrol and food.What do you think? Join the debate by adding your comments below

"I'd like to increase awareness to all parents in Kent and nationally if possible about the dangers of adding credit/debit card details to any kind of electrical or digital device associated with their children."

Miss Matthews, a multi-media executive with the KM Group, is planning to contact a solicitor about the payments.

She said Barclays and Microsoft have denied any liability over the bill, which has been paid. The Xbox Live account has now been closed.

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  • I, the one, the only, Lord Sir Barry the Great wrote:

    Great to see the bleeding heart moronic mums out in force. no surprise that the brain-dead jeremy kyle watching chavs sympathise with this idiot and naughty little Tom Jones. why, why, why delilah?

    08 Feb 2011 7:07 AM

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  • jane wrote:

    Did this woman never read her credit card statements either. My son has xbox but buys top up cards from HMV. Simples.

    08 Feb 2011 6:13 AM

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  • Ryan wrote:

    @ Palinurus

    She would not have even noticed that he had spent the money as everything you can purchase from the Xbox Live Marketplace is in fact digital. There is no physical products.

    I'm for one surprised that he only spent 1k in six months. I myself have an Xbox and have spent more then this in 2 months.

    08 Feb 2011 2:53 AM

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  • miss wrote:

    my word you are all so grown up this is a child.

    08 Feb 2011 12:24 AM

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  • Palinurus wrote:

    Few things are easier -- made easy by Microsoft -- than to use the "parental controls" option on XBox Live.

    This parent could have prevented any further use of her debit card beyond the XBox Live membership just by checking off a box in the account area.

    It is claimed in this article that the woman's laptop computer was broken since last July and she was too busy to check her bank statements (?) even though she considers herself hard-pressed financially. And apparently she never inquired what her son was doing with over
    a thousand pound's worth of games and accessories.


    08 Feb 2011 12:23 AM

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  • Disgusted wrote:

    Have any of you who have been cruel about the boy's appearance considered that he (or his school friends) might read this? Nasty people, he and his Mum may have been a bit naive with the X-box but he is still just a child and your comments could be seriously damaging to him.

    08 Feb 2011 12:11 AM

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  • G a y Kav wrote:

    Goodness me Ian B must be really macho he can kick an X-box !!!!how strong in that????

    07 Feb 2011 9:53 PM

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  • AP wrote:

    I find it astonishing that so many people have taken the trouble to post such horrible comments about this lady who is clearly already feeling very bad about this incident. You should be ashamed of yourselves. As it happens, on the credit card payment system that X-Box operates, it is (probably deliberately so) very difficult to remove card details from the X-Box system once they have been entered and therefore the circumstances described in the article can arise very easily. I hope that if any of the smug people who posted comments ever makes a mistake, they receive more sympathy than they have seen fit to give in this instance.


    07 Feb 2011 9:33 PM

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  • Mick wrote:

    One does not know one has made a mistake until one has made it. All those who scoff of course have "never" made a mistake.

    07 Feb 2011 9:16 PM

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  • mrs mop wrote:

    Take the xbox off the boy and send him out to play..looks like a little exercise wouldn't go amiss.

    07 Feb 2011 6:16 PM

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  • Victoria wrote:

    Not content with just looking stupid to those of us who read KM online she is also on the Daily Mail website where no one will be surprised that the comments are the same as on here. Her fault, stupid woman!

    07 Feb 2011 5:49 PM

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  • Chris H wrote:

    If it was a credit it would be in his mum name and proceedings would be issued against her. I the article made some refernce about a bank card presumabley a debit card of some sorts. By the virtue of the name and the refernce to returned payments no debt has ocurred as the £1,000 has been drawn from cleared funds.

    07 Feb 2011 5:27 PM

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  • Kay wrote:

    Also....could he have been playing games that under 18's shouldn't have been? I know MOST kids do this but still another point that Miss Matthews should be aware of ;O)

    07 Feb 2011 4:16 PM

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  • Kay wrote:

    Jen, read it again, s l o w l y

    07 Feb 2011 4:14 PM

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  • john wrote:

    Jen,
    Wake up love, it was his mums card, based on your workings i can ask my 11 year old son to buy me goods with my credit card and then not pay for them because he is under the age of legally having a credit card, I'm a parent of 2 boys and neither of them have ever got away with using my card of being allowed to do something so stupid, but thats because im a sensible parent.

    07 Feb 2011 4:11 PM

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  • The enigmatic, yet late great, Lord Sir Barry wrote:


    Jen sounds like a bright girl! With parents who posses that sort of level of spelling, grammar and general intellect, there's no surprise that kids, like young Tom Jones (pictured above), rack up stupid and pointless £1000+ bills for the Super Nintendo Gameboy!

    Maybe I'm doing Jen a disservice and she's using her moronic comment as an audition for a role in Eastenders or the Jeremy Kyles show!


    07 Feb 2011 4:08 PM

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  • Chas Dickens wrote:

    Jen - can you post in English please ?

    07 Feb 2011 3:49 PM

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  • jen wrote:

    all you do gooders make me laugh we as parents make mistakes as a child he as no rights and can not form debt and this is what it is he is under age so take them to court he as no means to pay and there is a law in that

    07 Feb 2011 3:44 PM

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  • The enigmatic, yet late, Lord Sir Barry wrote:

    You'd think Fred West would have other things to worry about, rather than playing silly games on the Megadrive!

    Anyway, I'm sure Marlene can get Boycie to sell a few dodgy cars to stump up the £1,000 bill that Westie has built up!!!

    07 Feb 2011 2:55 PM

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  • Kay wrote:

    Just get a PS3 instead LOL

    07 Feb 2011 2:16 PM

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  • Hardcore gamer wrote:

    Hardcore gamer -

    Before buying a Xbox and allowing your son to go online did you not do your research?
    If you are irresponsible enough to do this, perhaps you would like to do your research into who else he maybe talking to line and look at the age restrictions on the games that he is playing!
    Rather then punish him for your stupidity go to your local blockbusters store pick up a live card (£39.99) allow him to play online without putting your CC information into his online account!

    Think about it, your not going to go to your local town centre and give your debt card and pin number to the nearest homeless person are you now?

    07 Feb 2011 1:38 PM

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  • Detritus wrote:

    Yet another case of a parent not caring what their child does. Letting him play a games console for so long and without any form of supervision is feckless. My children's access to online content is from devices in family areas. They are also limited to the amount of time a day they can use any form of monitor - TV, computer or console. This encourages them to spend time in the real world with real people, including us as their parents. Maybe Miss Matthews should try living in the real world too and spend some time with her son.

    07 Feb 2011 12:58 PM

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  • Chris H wrote:

    The fact this women says “I was dealing with the letters about direct debits bouncing” should have given a clear indication that something going wrong. Even more alarming she failed to check her account since July because her laptop was broken. The beauty of online banking you can access it from any computer with an internet connection. As well as that you can get statements every month. I am sure if some one had cloned her bank cards far more than a £1,000 would have been taken. If you chose to operate your finances in such an appalling manor, then these things will happen.

    Perhaps instead of wasting even more money on Solicitors she should invest in classes in financial management and common sense.

    07 Feb 2011 12:56 PM

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  • Jimbo wrote:

    Always read the small print . It`s got nothing to do with Barclays or Microsoft .

    07 Feb 2011 12:56 PM

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  • Bert wrote:

    Great read.

    How did this make the local news?! Give a child a money pot and they will spend it on rubbish.

    I especially love that she is going to pay for a solicitor! I might give my mum my credit card to buy a weeks shopping then try and get a story in the Kentish Express because she has spent more than I wanted and it's not fair.

    07 Feb 2011 12:54 PM

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  • Kent Bloke. wrote:

    The boy looks like a young Stephen Mangan and the Mum, well, you would, wouldn't you?

    07 Feb 2011 12:40 PM

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  • Sam wrote:

    hmmmm more worringly that her son plays the XBOX that much that he has run up that size bill in a relatively short time...

    Nelson - clearly you have tourettes! How dare you insinuate ADHD is a made up problem, for some maybe, but for some it is a very real issue that doesnt hide behind anti social behaviour and undisciplined children but a real and genuine disability. Totally insensitive and you should apologise to those that are affected by such issues!

    07 Feb 2011 10:49 AM

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  • Stuart wrote:

    She should have taken some time out and set up the family online safety and privacy settings. You can turn off the function for a childs account to purchase things online. Idiot.

    07 Feb 2011 10:40 AM

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  • mum wrote:

    Blimey, I wish I had enough money in the bank so I didn't have to worry about checking statements. My 7 yr old 'could' run up these debts on the playstation BUT not only have I set the spend limit to £5.00 I have explained to him why he can't buy things without permission and he doesn't. Also, when he does buy things he usually pays me with his pocket money - even at 7 they need to understand the value of money. I can understand Miss M's frustration but get so cross when people can't take responsibility for their own actions/mistakes. I think the biggest mistake may have been expecting sympathy from the readers.

    07 Feb 2011 10:18 AM

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  • Nelson wrote:

    Silly woman.
    What must her employers think? Still the boy probably has ADHD or some other invented problem.

    07 Feb 2011 10:09 AM

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  • john wrote:

    I think that if I had been as stupid as she obviously is then I wouldn't want it on a news website, well done Miss Matthews you are a credit to us all, suggest that instead of running up bills the young man runs round cleaning neighbours cars to help pay this off, remember if m/s or Barclays write this off then it will be the rest of us who will be lumbered with the bill.

    07 Feb 2011 9:56 AM

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  • Kay wrote:

    FOOL!!!

    Seriously you only have yourself to blame, media executive LOL so you would have had access to online banking then....

    Hope you take the X Box away from him now, think he should know better than that but then that will be your fault too ;O)

    07 Feb 2011 9:47 AM

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  • meme le conk wrote:

    Try reading the t&cs before giving your 11 year old son unrestricted access to your credit card.

    Silly woman!

    07 Feb 2011 9:34 AM

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  • victoria wrote:

    Correction:

    I meant 'credit card number'. I was so amazed at her stupidity I couldn't type correctly. As for suing Barclays or Microsoft, that is ridiculous. She obviously needs to deal with her son who obviously didn't have any understanding of what he was doing.

    07 Feb 2011 9:34 AM

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  • JonR wrote:

    Always someone elses fault apart from the parents isnt it.Any lawyer would laugh this out of court.Sorr Miss Matthews,just accept your son did wrong and you shouldnt have been so flippant with your credit card details.

    Handy you work for KM though to get you more publicity.

    07 Feb 2011 9:31 AM

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  • Victoria wrote:

    Stupid woman! If I put my credit card bill into my kids' x-boxes they would do the same. It is not the x-box that is at fault but her or her son. You can, and in her case she should, buy prepaid vouchers so they can buy what they need. If I was her I wouldn't have advertised how stupid I have been! No sympathy.

    07 Feb 2011 9:31 AM

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