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Friday, May 25 2012

Racist graffiti drawn on baby’s memorial

Zowie Darling at the memorial bench to her daughter Tilly Rose in Chatham Cemetery

EXCLUSIVE

by Alan McGuinness

A mother whose daughter died at birth has spoken of her horror at finding a memorial bench defaced with racist graffiti.

Zowie Darling, 25, went to the burial site of Tilly Rose at Chatham Cemetery on Friday and made the discovery.

She has now reported the incident to Kent Police, whose officers visited the Maidstone Road site to gather evidence.

The case has been passed to the force's race hate unit.

Zowie said: "I'm livid, I'm still angry now. It's really upsetting to think that someone can go into a cemetery and do that.

"They know that she is a baby, it says it on the bench and grave. I'm horrified. The bench cost me £750 and it's opposite the grave."

She said this is not the first incident involving the grave and bench.

"Two weeks ago I put 11 lights on the grave and now there's five left. I just want it all to stop, it's a place for people to rest."

Offensive messages, including swearwords have been daubed on the bench, along with Tilly Rose's name and other names.

A Medway Council spokesman said: "Theft of any kind is disgraceful, but theft from a cemetery is unforgivable. The vandals have also scrawled 'kill you' on the memorial seat.

"Anyone who is aware of any criminal activity should report the matter to the police.What do you think? Join the debate by adding your comments below

"Sadly, we have to advise people that they should not leave anything of worth or sentimental value in any public place, including cemeteries."

Tilly died at Medway Maritime Hospital last July, most probably because of a knot in her umbilical cord.

Zowie, of Bull Lane, Newington, has since raised almost £10,000 for two foetal heart monitors to be used at the hospital so that more pregnant mums can be monitored.

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  • J ASHDOWN wrote:

    my fathers grave is almost in front of the bench , and we were there when police were taking photos , its absolutely disgraceful , i would like to add that the racist remarks on the bench were aimed AT the english. Either way there hands should drop off , we were taught from childhood not to misbahave in cemeterys , wheres all the respect gone , rest in peace little one , xx

    20 Apr 2011 1:36 AM

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  • Lionel the Compassionate wrote:

    Shelly: Yor understanding of human tragedy and your profound compassion for this mother, shines through. I note you have little to say concerning the "horrid" nature of this "human story"!! People in distress say all kinds of things, to distract them from their pain. It's difficult to understand I can see, but DO try.
    This is another example of the work of the worthless, brainless toerags that roam at night. Cowardly Sc*m!

    19 Apr 2011 7:42 AM

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  • Shelly wrote:

    Yes its all very horrid but did we have to hear about the cost of the bench it detracted from the human story.

    19 Apr 2011 5:36 AM

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  • Chris Irvine wrote:

    Total disgrace. My thoughts are with the family. I hope those responsible never share such heartbreak in their lives.

    19 Apr 2011 12:42 AM

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  • Terry wrote:

    I too am sick to see that we have such worthless sc*m that is part of our society. Does their cruelty and lack of humanity know no bounds.What kind of lives do they lead? How do they bring up their children; with what kind of values?
    I find it very worrying.

    18 Apr 2011 6:49 PM

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  • blubble wrote:

    A very sad story

    18 Apr 2011 11:13 AM

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  • craig wrote:

    please help this lady to find the sick barstrds.when the police find who it is all thay will get is a red card..

    18 Apr 2011 10:42 AM

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  • Maverick wrote:

    Prime candidates for the argument of why capital punishment wouldn't be such a bad thing!!!

    Absoloutely disgusting parasitical excuses for human beings...

    I really hope Karma catches up with them sooner rather than later

    18 Apr 2011 10:28 AM

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  • lisa wrote:

    this is just sick. it makes me angry. my thoughts are with the parents. i myself have seen vandolism to graves in my local cemetery. its just discusting. i hope they catch the hugs. xx

    18 Apr 2011 10:03 AM

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