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Tributes to Willesborough Dad Paul Bibbings

Tributes have been paid to an Ashford father who died at the age of just 53.

Willesborough man Paul Bibbings died on April 2, leaving behind his only daughter Chloe.

Paul Bibbings died aged 53
Paul Bibbings died aged 53

It is not yet known what caused the father-of-one's death, with investigations ongoing.

Ms Bibbings said that her father "loved life to the extreme".

"He was a larger-than-life character", she said, "and the brightest light at any party.

"He laughed the loudest and forgave the quickest, and he was a real cheeky chap around the women who doted on him for his antics and his cheeky smile.

"He will be deeply missed by me every day but at least now he is reunited with my Grandad, John Bibbings and the love of his life, my mum Debbie."

Paul leaves behind his only daughter Chloe, now 22
Paul leaves behind his only daughter Chloe, now 22

The former security guard, HGV driver and British Rail train driver suffered conditions including Lymphoedema that saw him housebound for a large part of the last ten years of his life.

Before that, Chloe said he could often be found on Princes's Parade in Hythe enjoying a "cheeky ice cream while watching the waves.

She said: "He saw it as a place to be mindful and get strength from – helping him to keep moving forward, be positive and remain hopeful for a healthier tomorrow."

His close friend Marty Seare said that Paul's death left him with "a quiet emptiness I can't quite desribe".

"He was a gentle giant, my brother from another mother," he said, |and he shared so many conditions with me.

Mr Bibbings with his wife at their wedding
Mr Bibbings with his wife at their wedding

"Going to call him at 3am when I am sitting up in pain and realising he's no longer there breaks my heart.

"I just need to keep my promise to Paul and look after his daughter as we made a promise if I died he would watch over my family and if Paul passed I would watch over Chloe."

A fundraiser has been set up in Paul's memory, to help pay for his funeral.

Chloe said: “Without a will that we can find, or any insurance policies, I am struggling to find the money to give my Dad the funeral he deserves or even a funeral at all.

"This hurts as I think of all the joy and love he gave to people, all the time he took making sure people were genuinely okay and for all the taxes he paid - the government have even refused assistance with costs and so I am alone”.

You can donate to the fundraiser here.

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