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Two young adults with Down’s syndrome have discovered that they share a family member, but they only found out because they were featured on the same page of a magazine.
Jamie Clark from St Margarets Bay and Bryony Smissen who lives in Morecambe, Lancashire, had both been featured on pages 6 and 7 of Down2Earth Magazine, produced twice a year by the Down’s Syndrome Association for its members.
The pair live more than 300 miles apart and had no idea that their mums shared a cousin until, after seeing their stories next to each other in the magazine, the pieces of the jigsaw were put together.
Mr Clark and Miss Smissen both have Down’s syndrome and had got in touch with Down2Earth Magazine in early 2018. Both were pleased when they were featured in the September 2018 issue of the publication.
Miss Smissen had written about her ambition to be a journalist and Mr Clark’s story was about his progress since he had been featured in the magazine 25 years ago as a baby including achievements such as being selected as the 2012 Olympic Torchbearer in Dover.
Because of this there is also a steel sculpture of him standing alongside James Bond author Ian Fleming and Forces’ Sweetheart Dame Vera Lynn on Dover seafront.
The family connection came to light when Miss Smissen’s mum Theresa had her cousin Linda to visit.
Miss Smissen proudly showed off her article in the magazine and Linda instantly recognised the face on the next page. It was Mr Clark, her (adopted) cousin Sue’s son!
They could hardly believe the coincidence. Linda had been adopted by Sue’s aunt and uncle in the 1950s and had grown up in the family. She later decided to search for her birth family, connecting with Theresa, her blood cousin.
Miss Smissen said: “One day when Linda came over and showed her I was in the Down2Earth magazine, she saw someone called Jamie who she recognised as her cousin’s son. That was funny because my mum is her cousin too. We were on the same page as each other.”
Direct contact was made between the families via text message but the distance between their homes made getting together in person a challenge.
Mr Clark and his mother happened to be travelling back from a trip to Scotland when one text arrived though, and soon a plan was hatched – the two families would meet at The Blackpool Football Club, which was a treat that had been booked for Mr Clark’s birthday.
The families only met for an hour, but it was a meeting, they say, that will be remembered forever.
Miss Smissen said: “I was so excited to go to Blackpool because it’s my favourite place, and to meet Jamie who was on the same page as me.
"We didn’t know each other but we both like football. Without Linda we wouldn’t have met, two strangers on the same page.”
Mrs Clark MBE, who runs Pegasus Playscheme in the Dover area, said: “They just clicked. They were so happy to meet each other. I feel like two families have been united, all because of a magazine.
"Without the piece in Down2Earth our two families would be none the wiser of the connections. Since the piece, another cousin of mine and Linda’s has been to visit after 25 years of no contact. It’s quite incredible how this has come about.”
Miss Smissen's Theresa said: “I was surprised and delighted with the coincidence of Bryony and Jamie’s stories appearing on the same page of the magazine, and even more pleased to then have the opportunity of meeting him and his parents. It’s very special as it connects two parts of my lovely cousin Linda’s life in the most unexpected and serendipitous way.”